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“Miracles are a retelling in small letters of the very same story which is written across the whole world in letters too large for some of us to see.”
- C.S. Lewis

Being a Parent…Pursuing Dreams

I’ve been thinking a lot about dreams lately. Not the kind that you have when sleeping but the ones you pursue…

Storm Chaser Dee 357

Credit: Flickr User DeeGirlDee

Today, thanks to author, presenter and Twitter user @NancyDuarte, I learned about the amazing photographer, Camille Seaman. Nancy invited Camille to visit her company and then later posted an interview with her.

Read this excerpt from Nancy’s blog:

Photographer Camille Seaman’s daughter was watching Storm Chasers on the Discovery Channel one day, when Camille stopped what she was doing to admire the storm’s light.

Her daughter noticed her and said, ‘Mom, you should do that!’

Three days later, she was.

You know what I love about that? Camille’s daughter thought enough of her mom that she believed she could be a storm chaser!

Now, take a look at this interview quote:

Nancy: You’re so busy, successful and adventurous. What’s it like to be a mom and be so dedicated to producing amazing work?

Camille: I think it’s really important for my daughter to know that being a mother does not negate the necessity for her to live her purpose, to follow her dreams, or to do what she feels is important. In fact, it amplifies it. Being a mother really made me want to stand up and say, ‘I cannot leave this planet in the shape that it is for my child.’ She’s, in many ways, been the inspiration.

My takeaway is that even as parents we still need to seek after what our God given purposes are, discover our talents and use them. I think when we do seek after our dreams and do a little risk taking. we model it for our children and they look up to us for it.

My author friend Jenny Lundquist wrote this week on her blog about “Mama Writers and Guilt”. Jenny has been pursuing her dream of being an author and has struggled with guilt for it. About the guilt, she wrote,

So this is what I figured out: I spent so much time over the past five years worrying about what writing was taking away from my children that I didn’t stop to ask myself what writing was giving to my children.
(read the complete post)

Did you catch that? It seems that when we pursue our dreams and purposes we are actually giving a gift to our children. I want to inspire my daughters to be who they were made to be. I want them to take risks. I want them to dream big and purse God sized adventure. Perhaps… my dream pursuits may actually inspire and train them.

Ann Kiemel Anderson and her husband Will adopted 4 boys. Remarkably they developed relationships to the young biological moms. To one of those moms, Ann wrote,

“I serve a giant God. And we dream big dreams for you, my God and I.”

Let’s be storm chasers.

Connecting & Creating

Eric Whitacre's Virtual Choir

Eric Whitacre's Virtual Choir

I think that a correlation exists between connection and creation. Our relationships inspire us to create.

“A 185 people…12 different countries…it was all about connecting…these individuals…alone…together.’
Eric Whitacre

I’m a 17 year old kid who loves metal, rock, screamo, drum and bass, dubstep, indie, emo, punk.

But when I close my eyes and listen to this, I could be anywhere, anytime, dead or alive, and you just loose yourself and forget about everything, let your mind wander. When I listen to it I? feel weightless, timeless, detached from the degrading society that we’re forced to live in, and I’m reminded of the beauty and potential that we all posses inside. This is so beautiful, so moving. Amazing.
Rob Prouse

It’s amazing what can be created when people connect to something larger than themselves. I think we’re hardwired with the need to create and to contribute to a bigger picture…to make a difference…to leave our fingerprints on others.

(note: From reading Seth Godin‘s new book, I just learned of Sasha Dichter. It was on Sasha’s blog that I first saw these videos.)

 

The Power of Relationship

This brief post is the about the power of relationships.

At 3:40 this morning – not able to fall back asleep – I went online and watched this video. It challenged me. Watch it and then I’ll tell you why.

(a note to women: the video says it’s about men but it’s about women, too. Stay open.)


(if you can’t see the video, watch it here)

One of my struggles in life is with letting myself draw close to others – even with my family. I tend to fill my life with busyness. These days I’m seeing that often I do that as a way to stay distant.  To be fair (to me), part of that is personality. I’m part introvert and gain strength from distance and solitude.  The other part, though, is self-protection. I think self  protection at times (but not always) is a sin. It’s selfishly motivated to keep my heart feeling safe from others and even God. It doesn’t work and it’s a lie.

We were designed for relationship…intimate relationship. It’s in my DNA (it’s in your DNA) to have genuine, close relationships with God, other people (a trusted few), and with our own person. I don’t think it’s possible to grow, to become who we were made to be or to reach our potential apart from close healthy relationships with God, others and self. The more I distance myself, the more my heart stays hard in places…the more I stay stuck. I need these relationships to help me live a better story.

This video reminded me of that.

Who might you gather around you to inspire a life of significance?

Nic Askew, from the The Possibility of Men

>>find out more about this video…visit www.soulbiographies.com/2011/01/the-possibility-of-men

Your turn….what do you think of the video? What does it make you think about?


Affirmations

Ha! Love this!